hi sorry this is kinda late i swear i meant to reply a few days ago but then i kinda forgot...? LOL my brain
alice wu perfectly capturing all the tiny moments of contained grief of growing up as a lesbian.. *my heart shatters into pieces*
YES I WATCHED HXH OMFG..... KILLUGON the blueprint for childhood friends to lovers etc etc <3 it can be so personal.. and i agree 8jun wouldn't be my first pick for that kind of dynamic but i kind of like it when 8jun just know they can't ever get rid of each other. like they've been through too much together and know too much each other to really cut each other off hence the divorceshipping...
meeting someone u used to know again and having to reconcile their past self with their present self and accept that yes theyve changed but so have you and that doesnt mean you're not the same people anymore. preciselyyyy, couldn't have said it better myself. relationships don't have to so linear all the time. sometimes you go in circles or take the wrong turn and its what can make a story so human and compelling imo. and dating someone and breaking up w them just opens up a lot of doors exactly
ur friends bcs u like each other. and then when u stop liking each other it hurts THIS! it's such a painful thing to grapple with at any age... also makes me think that more friendships would benefit from a certain level of expectations (agreed upon by both parties) like we shouldn't just take friends for granted if we want to keep them for long... :(
thanks for ur comment loved hearing ur thoughts too <3
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Date: 2021-09-07 04:02 am (UTC)alice wu perfectly capturing all the tiny moments of contained grief of growing up as a lesbian.. *my heart shatters into pieces*
YES I WATCHED HXH OMFG..... KILLUGON the blueprint for childhood friends to lovers etc etc <3 it can be so personal.. and i agree 8jun wouldn't be my first pick for that kind of dynamic but i kind of like it when 8jun just know they can't ever get rid of each other. like they've been through too much together and know too much each other to really cut each other off hence the divorceshipping...
preciselyyyy, couldn't have said it better myself. relationships don't have to so linear all the time. sometimes you go in circles or take the wrong turn and its what can make a story so human and compelling imo. and dating someone and breaking up w them just opens up a lot of doors exactly
THIS! it's such a painful thing to grapple with at any age... also makes me think that more friendships would benefit from a certain level of expectations (agreed upon by both parties) like we shouldn't just take friends for granted if we want to keep them for long... :(
thanks for ur comment loved hearing ur thoughts too <3